Ryan O’Neal battled two types of cancer until the very end.

After his passing in 2023, Hollywood mourned a great actor – but his own son didn’t attend the funeral.

After a long battle with leukemia and prostate cancer, Ryan O’Neal passed away on December 8, 2023, at the age of 82. The cause of death was congestive heart failure. In the final images of O’Neal, it was evident that his health had significantly declined. The once-vibrant actor, known for his charm and charisma, appeared frail and weary.

The award-winning star rose to fame as the quintessential leading man in iconic films like the heart-wrenching Love Story and Stanley Kubrick’s historical epic Barry Lyndon. In his heyday, he was a genuine heartthrob, captivating audiences and earning the adoration of women everywhere.

Yet his personal life was often overshadowed by scandal, especially his tumultuous relationship with actress Farrah Fawcett. For those who may not remember, Farrah was a revolutionary figure in the 1970s, embodying a new kind of sex symbol that inspired both teenage boys and girls alike.

While boys were smitten with her beauty, girls aspired to emulate her iconic style. In the 1980s, she proved she was more than just a pretty face, showcasing her talents as an accomplished actress.

Incarcerated in a state hospital
In 1985, Ryan and Farrah welcomed a son, Redmond James Fawcett O’Neal, into the world. However, as Ryan was laid to rest, Redmond was notably absent from the ceremony. This was perhaps not surprising, given that the 38-year-old was incarcerated in a state hospital in California at the time of his father’s burial.

Redmond Fawcett O’Neal has lived a life marked by struggles with addiction to alcohol and drugs. He also suffers from health issues such as bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and anti-social personality disorder.

These challenges have led to multiple incarcerations and a lengthy stay in a mental health facility. Despite Ryan O’Neal’s promise to Farrah Fawcett on her deathbed to care for Redmond, their relationship deteriorated to the point where Redmond refused to see his father during his treatment.

The situation was a stark contrast to the circumstances surrounding Redmond’s mother, Farrah, when she passed away in 2009.

At that time, Redmond was seen at her bedside in shackles. He also attended her funeral in the same restraints.

Three of four children absent
Many understood Redmond’s absence from the burial, but what was more shocking was that two of his other children were apparently also missing from the 82-year-old star’s small memorial service at Westwood Memorial Park Cemetery in Los Angeles.

One of O’Neal’s sons, Griffin O’Neal, revealed that he wasn’t even invited to the ceremony.

“I’m the hated son who told the truth. There are dark times in this family. Love means never having to say you’re sorry — and Ryan never did, to anyone,” he said.

Griffin, the son from O’Neal’s first marriage to Joanna Moore, told the New York Post that he drove 2,000 miles from his home in Houston, Texas, to attend the memorial service.

However, upon arriving, he learned that the service wouldn’t take place until the weekend after Christmas.

“I wasn’t even invited to send him off,” Griffin O’Neal told The Post.

According to Griffin, he and his father hadn’t spoken in 17 years. Their relationship broke down after a violent altercation in 2007 at Ryan O’Neal’s home in Malibu, where Griffin allegedly swung a fireplace poker at his dad, and Ryan aimed a gun at him. “I could have hit him, but I missed,” O’Neal said.

Despite this history, Griffin still wanted to say goodbye to his father. However, that sentiment wasn’t shared by his brother, Patrick O’Neal, 57, a Los Angeles sportscaster who had grown closer to their dad in recent years.

It was Patrick who organized the funeral, according to The Post.

The memorial service was attended by only about 25 people, including Patrick’s mother, actress Leigh Taylor-Young, 79, Ryan’s second wife. Given the significant mark Ryan O’Neal left on Hollywood history, one might expect his memorial service to have been a grand affair.

Tatum O’Neal, Ryan’s daughter from his marriage to actress Joanna Moore, was also not there, according to The New York Post. Their complicated relationship went back many years.

“I’m a hopeless father. I don’t know why. I don’t think I was supposed to be a father,” O’Neal told Vanity Fair in 2009.

Reconciled with his daughter
Fortunately, Ryan and Tatum reconciled in the late 2000s after a 20-year estrangement and years of hardship.

Following a stroke due to a drug overdose in 2020, Tatum reunited with her father twice, including a visit to Malibu for his birthday in April 2023. It seems they grew closer just before Ryan’s passing.